I Did It. You Know I Did It. I Know I Do It. Right. And I Love You. No Problem

The Torah does not spell out that Joseph actually forgave his brothers. Our sages point out that if a person is wrongs his fellow man and regrets this wrong, he is not forgiven by God until after he has made an effort to obtain forgiveness by the briefed party first. To use Yokee-Pour as the time to start thinking about what would be the right way to approach my friends rather than think of it as being the deadline for when everything needs to be resolved or tied up.