Don't don't have the closure chat. Just be like I don't think it's the right time for us. Give her some chance to like actually heal. If you know that you're gonna walk into that conversation and be interrogated for answers that you can't give then that's weird. It might just be that they really do need an answer. Or if something if you've done it out of the blue perhaps you do probably owe them an explanationif you cared about this person. But it's also like I need to have this closure chat not because I need answers but because I actually need you to provide me with some emotional support. That way there's like an end to those expectations