How Can You Relinquish Control?

Conan O'Brien: "I think it's I think it's about control like control makes us feel safe. And yet you can you actually if you can relinquish control truly in you, you will be feel so much more free and safe" He says he has sympathy for people who are nervous around him because they don't know what else to do. The comedian is at the stage now where he has to tell people who he is - even though he hasn't flown in quite a while.