Don't Sit, Have a Realistic Bar

When i started dating seriously in my twenties you know, my orientation was looking or what's wrong with a woman. And the buzz word in my friend's circle was, ye, don't settle. But that is so foking, vague and unclear that it's really hard to make out what that even means. Ii'm not supposed to settle, and i should just know when i found the one, and it should just kind of be good all the time. That's a fantasy. It's more like you, on your unconscious steers you towards finding a good sole mate slash healing mate, slash practice partner who can help you grow through all your relational injuries.That is the journey