The Importance of Honesty

Dan O'Brien: My struggle with pornography was one of the things that I shared when it's one of my deepest, darkest secrets. The first time I said this, I was crying and I thought I was going to bomb it. When I finally said it, every part of me, like if those words had like was an object, I would want to like pull them back and put them back in my mouth right? But it was too late. You can't unring a bell. And immediately after that, I felt this like heaviness and this like sense of guilt and judgment. He says he realized sometimes when we carry shame around something is we feel like nobody else is struggling