Is Castration a Prerequisite for Sexual Enthusiasm?

Every enjoyment has to have reference to absence, righti? I think it's odd that we think about it in those terms. But i also think that it goes long with the way people like a more broad minded approach to saina. The only other version is, you need an image that creates a sense of presence, which is always an illusion. It's really through what's not there that you enjoy. And i think, like the fantasy gives is a perfect example of that.