I'm with you that there's nothing you can do about it. I'd encourage you to be a little bit more compassionate towards people who may be confused or struggling, or see themselves as victims. You know, i don't know if there is an objective right here, or an objective wrong. And then, you know, no amount of truth is going to change your mind. What i'm saying is just like, from a human perspective, even if you can think they're ridiculous, can you be to them toooh, absolutely. Want one of one of the quots in the book of alcohoc anonymus says, but those we dislike, we practise justice and courtesy