Is That the Goal Over Here?

Yosa: We try to set a goal for ourselve that involves so many different variables that we create an unsolvable problem. She says when people say, focus on yorself, like, how do you do that? Yosa: I know it's kind of weird, but what you do as you give up on it? Sure give up on finding some one? And that when i met my girl friend, as bazarr.