Do I Have Trouble Flourishing?

i'm 30, but particularly in my twenties, this was a real, ever present problem. And that was the opposite of flourishing. It's probably exaggerated the extent to which this is a new thing. But it is really not human flourishing to be in a society where just people can't really talk to each other. So those are some of the things we can observe on a culture level. But it's probably even more valuable to just think about, ok, individually, do i have trouble flourishing?