How to Deal With Retroactive Jealousy

I've been with my partner for two years we are both in our late 30s so obviously we've had previous partners and histories. Since finding out the history of the ex and meeting her on a night out I have become absolutely obsessed with her this sounds crazy but it's really taking me to a dark place filled with low self-esteem, she says. "It was very traumatic for me and now I feel re-traumatized seeing my best friend almost act like it's okay and she needs to hear that from you," Catherine writes.