I was just talking to my friend Rob Bell who's a brilliant person it's like isn't it funny when we were young we just wanted to be rich and now if someone's like super rich like DuPont rich yeah and they have kids you're like oh no the greatest compliment I gave my daughter is she works so hard and your greatest fear is apparent and we can't help her. She's made of the and and and grinds but our biggest fear is parents and you have to literally be, he says.