Interview #39: Stop Being Nice (Dating & Relationships with Dr. Robert Glover)
The Thinking Mind Podcast: Psychiatry & Psychotherapy
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What's Wrong With Being a Nice Guy?
The most fundamental thing wrong being a nice guy is you're not honest, you're not authentic. You don't let the world see who you are, you don't let you see whoYou are. So we become very guarded, non-transparent, hidden, often isolated. We then try to kind of lick our finger and hold it up to the breeze and see which way, you know, the wind's blowing. Okay, now I become a chameleon and try to become what I think that other person wants me to be. If I can fix that, I can be better. I can be good to where that doesn't happen again.
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