There is some evidence, thit's the most interesting evidence, that you can improve your dating success by being an extreme outlier. People do well are like women with shaved heads, people with colored hair, or people with really wacky glasses. If you're not bradpit or nally portman, who everybody wants a date, you can sometimes have more success byBeing an extreme version of yourself and then having some people extremely into you. It's a horrible place to focus your energy on these groups that aren't getting the attention that they deserve. And if you end up with one of them because they might be so highly desired, it may be completely bad psychological traits still available

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