46. Clients Need Us to Pivot:Blocks are Cries for Reorganization of Protection
The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy
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The Tango and the Relationship
The main thing is just asking you to pay attention to it. My least favorite part about the tango is telling the therapist what to do as if our moves are choices that we make. So, what we're pivoting on is the status of the bond in that moment. For instance, a really difficult pivot decision that I was making with about 38 minutes in that session is my pursuer who was really pretty hostile early on.
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