"If youtas are wanting answers for me, you're not going to get em," he says. "My recommendation is that you learn techniques to become aware in dreams and observe the quality of experience" If you want to know what it's like to be in love, you should fall in love; if you want to understand the nature of happiness, you should find love,. You should find success, and you should see if you're happy. Afterward and strive for those things and learn for yourself.