Parenting - Is There a Difference Between ADD and ODD?

"This is where I get the most successes, ask yourself. How can I reveal to my kid when they're showing self control?" "Kids that have a hard time with impulsivity and are very defiant, they get this big charge out of being in control by breaking rules and creating chaos," she says. 'There's this like need for control and need for power and need for competency because internally, they have a hardtime regulating themselves' "'If there's a fire, you know, put the fire out or run for safety,' it oftentimes can just lead to a lot of missteps,'" he adds.