"We became an episode of Jerry Springer," she says. "I've forgotten about being pushed down the stairs, but my kids didn't forget they don't forget their mother being physically abused" He tried to coerce her into acting like a lesbian and dressing up as a woman in the bedroom,. that's coercion and, you know, insisting on being the submissive ... That's the kind of thing that that fetishy behavior does to a marriage."