Research suggests that having clarity about our own values and goals is key to finding meaningful connections. You need to align your dating behaviors with the values that you select. If you go on a first date with someone who doesn't value humor or generosity, it's not going to work. For me, these are creativity, independence, leadership, community and generosity.
Dating in our 20s can feel like an uphill battle, and many of us are seeking an alternative to casual relationships and meaningless flings or hookups. This week on the podcast, we discuss how we can adopt an intentional approach to our romantic life and dating decisions, in particular, how this can free us from some of the pressure and stress that accompanies dating in our 20s. We discuss the psychology and research behind self awareness, value and goal orientation, self concept, understanding what others want and how to lower your expectations and meet people organically so that we can embrace the excitement and fun of meeting new people and forming meaningful connections. Listen now.
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