How to Avoid Low Value Manipulation in Multi Dating

"If you over empathize with men or if you feel really bad about yourself, then this isn't going to work for you," she says. "You got a more or less just look at it like this person is occupying your time for exactly as much time as they are interesting to you and no more." She adds that women tend to want to keep emoting and conversing with guys far past the usefulness of the man. 'I can totally tell that the times where I let these kind of low value guys sneak in was when I was really busy'