The Importance of Understanding Our Relationship to Others

I find the most interesting conversations are when you're trying to find out from the other person what got them to think in a certain way rather than debating. When I disagree with someone right that can slip into a conversation that is very confrontational in our political times but what I find much more interesting in those instances is trying to figure out why they think that what they like about that idea how they came to think it. If you're really hurting yourself or if you're really angry yourself so the way in which you feel yourself and your personality and who you are that's what you bring to the world yeah. That's what we want others to see and it kind of happens I think very implicitly