I'm Getting Married and I Feel Like I've Don't Have the Power to Say No

"I feel animosity towards my fiance for never giving me the chance to breathe. I tried to break up with her that night, but when i told her we couldn't see one another, the water works came and i gave into the tears," he writes. "It's not fair for such an amazing woman like her to be with a damaged man like myself." 'You knew from day one you didn't want to be with this woman and you needed your space,' writer says of his ex-fiancée. "'Stop blaming her and feeling resentment towards her.' You need to go to therapy,'" she adds.