Many people would accept the value of seeking the possibility of helping the other to feel safe as a precondition for working through a conflict productively. But in an interdependent relationship we're considering two people who have agency who want to engage in a conditional relationship based on terms. People who don't build this first are rudderless, right? They're working in a structure that isn't co-constructed. The architecture is not built by what both people really want.

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