You're in the Danger Zone in a Relationship?

In all of my breakups, I have made the choice while I still loved the person. And part of that is because I'm like, oh, we didn't wait and strangle the love out of existence. When you're looking at the other person as your opposition, as your enemy, as your narrative against them, what the hell? So that brings me to another piece of our toolbox. The victim villain thing. It's never too late to recover from that if there is grace and forgiveness. We don't actually get help from experts who can help us understand each other more deeply.