How to Pace Yourself and Not Just Meet the One

In this Ask Me Anything with my podcast co-producer Bailey Richardson, I answer the question, “How do I manifest my life partner?” Since I myself have spent a considerable amount of time pondering that quandary and eventually, at least for me, found the key to that code – I’m happy to share what I’ve learned throughout my not-so-perfect journey to calling in an aligned partner and exactly how I did it. 

Through lots of painful learnings and heartbreak over the last 50+ years, it’s been one of the greatest lessons of my life to learn that what we look for in others must be what we ourselves are able to provide. 

I share the mistakes I’ve made, the ways I’ve been able to reflect on and heal hurt from my past, and the practical tools and steps I implemented to be able to invite a truly healthy, loving, secure and supportive relationship into my life.

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00:06:07 — Looking Within Before Calling In An Aligned Partner

• Childhood trauma’s impact in the way we form connections 

• How we begin to reprogram subconscious patterns and habits

• Tools for excavating generational traumas we have inherited

• How Luke identifies a healthy and unhealthy relationship

• What Luke has done to change patterns in dating that weren’t serving him

• Being able to date yourself

• Steps for calling in a healthy relationship

• Modalities for healing deep core wounds reflecting in relationship dynamics

00:33:59 — Creating a Blueprint for a Healthy Relationship

• What healthy attachment can look like

• Dharmic vs karmic relationships and what we learn from them

• What was in Luke’s “dating plan” 

• Determining your very specific core values in a partner

• How to envision your ideal partner

01:05:50 — Luke & Alyson’s Love Story: It’s Okay to Break Your Own Rules

• Why Luke broke his own rules on his and Alyson’s third date at a peyote ceremony 

• Discerning between alignment and infatuation

• The barometer of a healthy relationship

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