Is There a Space for Women to Let Go of Control?

Many women, or feminine partners, don't allow any space to exist. They take over every detail of their lives so that they don't have to let go of control. And this would be in their outer lives and sexually as well. This is such a turn on when a woman truly allows herself to be in her own body,. In her own sexuality, in her desire for him. So i remember when i first saw this very clearly, years ago, and i was seeing some one fairly new in the relationship. I just fully, cataclysmically opened and he rose up to the occasion.