Pastoral Care in Middle and Upper Middle Class Churches

i'm not talking about people who are coming from significant backgrounds of abuse or alcoholismor any of ther things. I'm talking about just a generalized atmosphere of toxic emotions and behavior which is growing in culture, and is eating pastors alive. The bible doesn't give a rip about meaning, making a purpose driven life, balance, freedom from anxiety or a sense of personal well being. Fulfilment of desire becomes elevated to the level of need. And need gets jacked up to the status of aright, because my desires are a bottomless pit. They'r likea anyone, a. There's multiple caviets i could insert but i think there's something there.