This chapter explores how individuals with a history of childhood neglect may be drawn to partners with avoidant behaviors, leading to a cycle of emotional confusion and self-blame. The episode also features an advertisement for online therapy services by BetterHelp.
Healthy people run screaming from avoidant partners. But there’s something about neglect in childhood that primes you to fall harder for someone when they constantly pull you in and then push you away. At first see it, and it gives you pause. But if you stay with them, and you keep hoping that THIS time will be different, your thinking and perception will begin to distort, until you actually believe that THEY are the victim and YOU are causing them to emotionally hurt you. In this video I respond to a letter from a woman who wonders how she can improve her relationship with an avoidant partner.
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