Sensate focus is like really paying attention to what you're feeling in terms of touch taste smell. That could be a potential cause of delayed ejaculation and then also I loved this suggestion self-stimulation in front of a partner so rather than just telling them how you like to be touched showing them can be a great thing um to do as well. Ruby says she finds that my head can just like go all over the place or I start stressing about having an orgasm and then I'm like yeah this is gonna help me then have an orgasm one thing I do which I still do a lot of the time was predict what's going to happen next when we are making out with a
In this episode, Hannah is joined by Ruby Rare, who is a queer non-monogamous sex educator. Ruby discusses her new book ‘Sex Ed: a Guide for Adults’, and what it was like writing a book in lockdown. She and Hannah talk about Ruby’s love for being nude, her body positive life drawing class, and how queerness can allow people to write their own rules about sex and relationship structures. Finally, Hannah and Ruby answer questions from Instagram about consent, delayed ejaculation, and queer sex, and Ruby talks more about her jelly fetish!
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Ruby Rare is a queer, non-monogamous, pink-haired sex educator on a mission to get people talking more confidently and inclusively about sex. She’s an ambassador for Brook, the UK's leading sexual health charity for young people, co-founder of Body Love Sketch Club, a body positive life drawing class, and when the world is less pandemic-y she runs workshops for adults on porn, pleasure, and non-monogamy. Her debut book Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults is out now.
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