How to Find Love as an Adult

The act of finding love as an adult is a refinding of love, we're following a pattern set in childhood. The way that we love as adults is sitting on top of the way we loved as children. Our instincts lead us to some pretty strange choices and what we're repeating is not necessarily always the happy love of which we ostensibly dream. Let's think about communication in love. At the beginning of many relationships we start off with a sense that our lover can understand us intuitively. No sooner have we said, you know that feeling went, they go,Yeah, yeah, and we suddenly feel we have a soulmate. It's a disastrous idea and it leads to a catastrophic