What's Love Did You Crave More?

The key question that i've seen you ask in interventions a multiple times, and it's always fascinating, cause i see you disarm people. And i'm curious if this question, if we ask it. Now, if people in the audience at home could find value for themselves, i'll hear you ask, who's love did you crave more? Your mother or your father? O, yut speak a little bit to that, that line of questioning and what t can help some oneii, why ask the question?