How Do We Move on to the Next Phase?

I'm thinking of the cultures being trapped in these early stages of grief and somehow not able to follow those stages through. It seems like god is valorized the hidden consistency of our senses and our common sense, right? And you can take that away, but people still own the relationp busin isn't over yet. I think more importantly, and very much what bruce was saying, it allows you to tease out the positive value that you had attached to a particular situation and make it available for another attachment somewhere else.