Are You Not Getting the Answers You Want?

"I know so many guys who say, yeah, well, I've tried to talk to her about it," he says. "There's no real vulnerability going on in terms of sharing honest emotions or specific needs" If that doesn't work, check your communication skill sets and ask yourself why you're not getting the answers you want,. He suggests asking: What exactly does it look like to try? Who's going to take what action? These are the things that need to be talked about when you're moving through a conflict."