How to Be Less Nice and More Direct

One client struggled to spend time with certain friends and she's like, put their good friends of mine. So I felt a version, imagine being like front and center listening to this jam band for nine hours,. And so I clarify with him and that's, I didn't really want to do that. That's also another important thing about being less nice and more you is listening to what do I want? What do I not want? What sounds good to me?"