The Greatest Obstacle to God's Blessing

From childhood, we have this longing to be seen. And as a father, one of the greatest ways that i can bless my kids is just to see them. We receive blessing by speaking, or hearing the voice of god speaking over us. To be seen by god is to be utterly transformed from the inside out. It's one thing to understand that god blesses in place of cursing. It's quite another thing to be seen by God and to be blessed right in the place that i was cursed.