I'm Demisexual, but I Can Only Feel Sexually Attracted to a Man

For most people, the way they understand their orientation, what they identify as, it comes from what attraction they feel corret. For example, i have been demisexual for, iadonlo forever, i guess. But for a long time, even when i realized that that's the type of attraction i was feeling, i didn't label myself that way because i didn't want to at the time. That didn't change how i felt, right? So it's kind of like the attraction piece is what you feel, and that then dictates the like label. It goes with you. An like feeds into it, right? Every person gets to decide what label they choose to identify