How to Stop Being a Victim

We can't be strategically dynamic if we are always on the defensive. Pay attention to your enemies, for they are the first to discover your mistakes. Anticipate the things that you're going to have to deal with in life. Emotions are easily hijacked by illusory threats that tap into our insecurities. We don't like being called out on our bad behavior. If you find yourself upset as somebody for pointing out something that you actually said or did, then you are arguing with reality.