Do You Ever Say, Oh, Tell Me How It Might Work or What Positive Things Could Come From This?

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I work with an aggressive E or he's just everything it like when we are in a group in the management team and discussing a opportunity. I don't know if you would describe him as a pessimist. You're smiling. Very much. But do you ever do you ever say, oh, tell me how it could work or tell me what positive you see in this? It was in a bigger conversation. Yeah. So that's actually a tactic I talk about in the book that I do think works well with pessimists.

Kim’s boss hired her to run operations and human resources at the company he founded, where he is one of four partners. Six months in, she’s baffled by his mix of behaviors, all of which have made her job much harder than it should be. He attacks nearly every modification or upgrade to a process, policy, or program she suggests. He refuses to listen to feedback. The other partners don’t dare to intervene. If it’s his (outdated) way or the highway, why did they bring her in?

She needs his support in order to make any sort of progress. What should she do? What should you do if you find yourself in a similar situation?

In this episode, Amy G talks with Kim about her situation and recommends tactics for her to try. By the end, Kim has a plan to temper his pessimism and gain his trust.

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