Death, the Ultimate Refuge

My mother died of a massive brain hemorrhage after being in intensive care for ten days. I was not there at the exact moment she passed away, and that still haunts me. The words of the great mystic abdel cadir algilani, believers do not die, they only pass from this temporal life to the everlasting life, didn't console me but i continued to find refuge in prayer. How we imagine god is how we imagine our destinies.