i think the biggest thing is, don't sweat the small stuff. Most couples drink too much. You have to understand certain things like ththe personality of the person that you're with is far more important than what you think of their fugging ass. I findlik with instagram culture and hook up culture and things like that. A lot of the problems come from a lot of men not being men,. Women getting with these men, and then the women constantly looking for something better. If you're going to have leverage in your relationship, you got to bring some shit to the table.