I'm Not a Matrimoniologist, but a Social Psychologist

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In some parts of the world, Doctor ben carney would be considered a matrimoniologist. His interest has always been in intimacy and how people developand maintain intimate connections,. And i have studied that in the context of marriage. But my interest is broader than just marriage. Marriage is a very convenient place to study adult intimacy because it's where many adults end up practising dulled intimacy for large portions of their lives.

Love! Romance! Intimate relationships! Marriage! Divorce! Remarriage! Clowns! This episode has it all. The wonderfully warm Dr. Benjamin Karney of the UCLA Marriage lab has been studying romance and intimate relationships for 20 years and sits down to chat about being single and the mechanisms behind finding a partner, what behaviors foster intimacy, why some couples stay together vs. splitting up, some bananas proposals, wedding budgets, how parenting affects marriage, historical problems with matrimony and his own experiences with marriage and divorce. These behaviors are also so applicable to friendships, work partnerships and as it turns out...professional clowns.

Dr. Ben Karney at the UCLA Marriage Lab

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