i feel like people do that sometimes, consciously and also subconsciously, just in life, for sure. So you might set out something self deprecating, and if somebody sends it back your way, or i have to imagine you do that. And what we're doing, i feel like, and i'd love know what you feel. Like a sensitive person is sending out a little sonar. It's almost like i'm blind and like a dolphin or some animal like that, that i send out sonar, and if you ping it back, that's how i'm sensing who's safe,. Yet yet we think we're right. Rigt sure.