Wright: I do think there's a little bit more about the request versus the order, which i think she's sometimes mixing up. She'll phrase things like a request, but they're actually in order. Not really transparent communication is going to discourage the kid from participating because you mean one thing, an you're saying something else. The kid are going to learn whatever communication style you teach them,. And so that's why, when you start expressing an interest in understanding their viewpoint, something magical happens. They take their cues from you. Seit's neat seeing like a an 18 year old with like grandmother mannerisms. Ok, any questions from yall? I just have a request