The Need for Fairness

i was wondering whether the need for cecrocity or mutuality wis could be labelled as need a aparan example, like ina cople. If iam opening up, or doing thisoror working on myself to findresponsibility for my actions, i am caof expecting for my partner to do so. The very fact that you have an expectation makes it not a needt i have e cano,. What's the need behind i'm guessing that ther for caring, need for caring to feel to feel cared for? Isn't that closer to it's just that you want him to do it ecause you do it. Or now, some things, i think