I noticed just how much pressure there was and from all of these places that really made no sense. A woman is like a flower or something, but then once you clip it It's like what are you doing trying to pollinate it? There's something Disposable about it. I don't think that having a baby or having a second or third or fourth baby is like Giving in to paint the paycheck. But if it's not like anything that you want to do and you're doing it because you're like that's just what we do... That's why people get so mad at each other when they find out their friends have had babies too.