The Importance of Anti Goals

My dad drove and my dad had this successful exit from a company, not as young as he would have liked for it to have been. He went to the doctor and they diagnosed him with cancer and said he had a 30% chance of living the next 12 months. And imagine going through life, betting the whole farm on this like theoretical payoff only to get punched in the face with that. I think we all need to have these like anti goals of what are the boundaries that we're not willing to cross.