You Want Respect? You Don't Want It?

In almost all our inner actions, going back into the story isn't going to meet anybody's needs. So i have to help this person get clear. What are they requesting of me at this moment in relationship to that unmeant need for respect? Two questions. One is if there wanting respect, if they say, well, i want you to respect me right now. Yes, that may not be given everything that's happened,. That may not be an option. Well, the problem, i say, respect is not a request. That's the unmet need. And yo order can't s or or if you can't, you need to give yourself some empathy and play with