The Differences Between the China Her Mom Left and the China Their Family Left

The world that Rachel's mom left would have had entirely different values than the chinese values that this family is holding onto. Elinor has been doing what a lot of people do which is you paint with a broad brush about things and so also kind of ignoring not just ignoring but yeah just ignoring the fact that like it worked out for you too. It seems like what they find most shameful about Rachel other than their assumption that she's a gold digger is that she doesn't have a good familylike she comes from a disrespectful lineage. How you are individually is so connected to your family's quote unquote mistakes and behaviors in China.