You Have to Make a Decision to Propose

A father bob bard said since discernment became fashionable no one's made a decision. The point is that we can all hide behind discernment it's this very spiritual sounding word. We're called to make an action to make a decision and certainly you need to discern. But at some point, like my wife and i still aren't ready for marriage nope if four children would almost be married 17 years we're not ready  and so at some point you have to make a decisions.