Keeping an open mind about what you're reading is extremely important and even Dictating right that's why I think one thing that sat a little bit wrong about this This book for both of us is there is a lot of dictating the way things are with With no outs with no deviations, and that's always problematic. There should be some things carved in stone very few the things that you carve in stone They should be very very few and even when you carve them into stone. You should be able to move that rock around a little bit Yeah, I think that's a awesome metaphor And then the other word that that certainly triggered a response to me is the concept of control This is about