The Limits of Subjectivity

The felt sense that the object that I play is too important to abandon and the strain and stress that would I that I'd be facing should I do that is. It's not tenable. So we could do, we could do work to kind of foster subjectivity, but there was a limit to the subjective presence that she could inhabit in that family unit. And so then for me making sense of that is, okay, if she was to come back and say, hey, I needed to process this, I would really love to have the opportunity to say, like, here's where we notice when we can be subjective. Then there's when, you know, maybe circumstances forces to